I'd rather have a headache than heartache

I wish he didn't mean that much to me.
I wish I stopped caring.
I wish I could get through this faster.

Romans 5:3-5
"For we can can rejoice, too when we run into problems and trials for we know that they are good for us--they help us learn to endure. And endurance develops strength in character in us, and character strengthens our confident expectation of salvation. And this expectation will not disappoint us. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love."