God spoke, I listened:

(from Pastor Ronny's message at Generate; about dating)
Current Series: Secret Sex

1. before you date, pray about it. Philippians 4:6-7

2. when you date, date Christian. 2 Corinthians 6:14 

3. when you're daing, don't be exclusive but inclusive—meaning, hang out with others who keep you grounded (don't let it just be you 2); do this to eliminate intimacy between you 2 and incase it doesn't work out, it won't be as hard on you. 

4. my favorate part of the message: "Behold, I am making all things new" —Revelations 21:5

(no matter what you've done, God forgives.  (Remember though, He doesn't erase your memory. And this fact is a warning about what you'll do against your future spouse.) it's encouraging to know that no matter what i did before.. i am new NOW)

check it out even if you don't want to, 

that way, at least you'll see what you're saying "no" to: 

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