today's PDC/DH spoke:

Serving is the opposite of our natural inclination. Most of the time we’re more interested in “serve us” than service. We say, “I’m looking for a church that meets my needs and blesses me,” not “I’m looking for a place to serve and be a blessing.” We expect others to serve us, not vice versa.

i haven't been able to serve in a church for many months now. that's the sense of incompletion i feel--where (which church) can i serve? 

there's an emptiness here w/o a church family.